How To Flirt
Flirting can be something as small as tossing your hair back to something as bold as asking for his phone number. But someone women just have no idea how to flirt. Even when they like a guy, they become so terrified to give him the signals that instead they freeze up and act almost the opposite of what they feel towards the object of their affection. The guy ends up assuming that this woman hates his guts. You shouldn't have to feel worried or anxious about flirting because nothing is wrong with it. If he likes you, terrific and if he doesn't, oh well, no harm done. Besides, if a guy does not reciprocate your innocent flirting, it is much easier to handle that than a flat out rejection if you had asked him. So feel free to flirt and flirt a lot.
Men love to be flirted with by anyone, even by little old ladies. They eat it up because it makes them feel good about themselves! If you like a guy and you know he is single, go ahead and flirt with him. You don't have to go overboard. But what you need to do is always smile around him, this will make him comfortable with you. When you are facing him, point your whole body towards him and don't clasp your arms around your chest. Instead, put one arm on your hip and use the other hand to lightly touch your neck and upper chest area (NOT your boobs). You can even do something as silly as twirl your hair. Laugh at everything he says and make him feel like he is the king of the world and the guy that everyone wants to be around. Men love this and the love to make you laugh. Don't go overboard with flirting and I mean don't get drunk and end up sitting on his lap blowing in his ear. If you do this, you have just become the lay for the evening and nothing more.
You can find tips and tricks on how to flirt like the pros but the best read there is on flirting is a guide on the internet called How To Flirt in 30 Days. We love the manual, you can read it on your computer, it is completely downloadable. It teaches you tons and tons of perfect flirting techniques you can use almost anywhere. This is especially helpful for people that just don't know how to flirt at all. It also teaches you how to overcome your fear and shyness with the opposite sex. It is not at all something for you to be ashamed about if you are too shy to flirt. Many people have this disadvantage and many people have overcome it with this guide. It might change you so much you might eventually become a flirting queen! How fun would that be?
Remember to flirt in proper situations. What I mean by that is flirt in social functions: parties, bars, public venues, restaurants and even the grocery store. But don't make a habit out of flirting at work in the office. This is a sure fire way to get all of the other ladies talking nasty behind your back and it could lead to an office romance which is a general no-no. You could end up losing your job OR if things don't work out for you your workplace could end up being hell for you. It is just one of those things you should avoid. And of course, no flirting at family functions unless you really feel like being a participant on the Jerry Springer show.
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